The Uniform Couples Retreat

A Yearly Event | Uniform Families Foundation

The Uniform Couples Retreat

One weekend a year for the couples who hold the uniform life together. Firefighters, paramedics, law enforcement, medical, and military, with the spouses who wait at the door. No phones. No shop talk. Pastors and counselors who understand the job. Just the two of you, for once.

The Uniform Couples Retreat

The job takes a lot out of a marriage. One weekend a year, we give some back.

The Weekend

What the Retreat Is

Faith and Rest

Two nights away with chaplains, pastors, and licensed counselors who know what a 48, a deployment, or a night on the street does to a marriage.

Every Pillar in One Room

A fire couple next to a nurse's family next to a Marine and his wife. Nobody has to explain the schedule, the fear, or the silence at the dinner table.

Private by Design

No photos, no social media, no last names required. Law enforcement couples attend without ever being identified.

Paid For

Sponsors and donors cover the weekend so a uniform couple can come at little or no cost. The families who serve everyone else do not pay for this.

What Happens

Two Nights, Three Days

Arrive Friday

Check in, dinner together, and the first night the two of you have had in a long time.

Saturday Sessions

Morning sessions on marriage under the uniform, led by chaplains and counselors. Afternoons free. Saturday night dinner and worship.

Sunday Send Off

Chapel, brunch, and a plan to carry home. Couples leave with a counselor contact and a circle of couples who get it.

Counseling Available

Private sessions with a licensed counselor all weekend for any couple who wants one, no record, no paperwork.

Counseling Stipend

Chaplains for Every Pillar

Fire, EMS, law enforcement, hospital, and military chaplains on site.

Chaplain Network

Kids Cared For

Couples arrange their own care at home. We help with the cost for families who need it so both spouses can come.

Sponsor

Send a Couple

Every gift sends a uniform couple to the retreat. Sponsor a couple, a session, or the whole weekend.

$100One couple's meals for the weekend
$250One night for one couple
$600One couple, the whole weekend
$3,000Five couples, the whole weekend

For Uniform Couples

Request a Spot

Date and location are being set. Tell us who you are and you will hear first. Law enforcement couples: first names and region only is fine.

Why We Built This

Because the Uniform Comes Home With Them

Uniform Families Foundation was founded by a fire wife married to a Marine veteran and an LAFD EMS Captain for fifteen years. She knows what the job does to a marriage and how rarely anyone gives the couple a weekend back. The Uniform Couples Retreat is that weekend, every year, for every pillar.

  • For married and committed couples in fire, EMS, law enforcement, medical, and military
  • Faith based, open to every tradition, no one turned away
  • Private, no photos, no publicity
  • Sponsored so couples come at little or no cost

Uniform Families Foundation is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit. Donations are tax deductible to the extent allowed by law. Date, location, and details to be announced. Spots are limited and awarded as funds allow.

Uniform Families Foundation
Serving the families behind the uniform: Fire, Paramedic and EMS, Law Enforcement, Medical and Frontline, Military, and Uniform Kids.
Uniform Families Foundation is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit corporation. EIN: 41-5063345.